Relationship

Relationship

"Your primary relationship is with yourself and God, and every other relationship follows from there. To attract, heal, or balance a relationship, then snuggle more closely with your loving Creator. As you feel safe and loved within, so shall your other relationships bloom and prosper."

Today the angels are reaching out to those of you who are having difficulty with a specific relationship in your life. The word they keep emphasising to me is "expectations". They are asking you to take a close look at the expectations you place in this relationship to determine whether they are reasonable.

It's easy to get so caught up in a relationship that we begin to expect things from our significant other that are actually things we are responsible for giving to ourselves. For example, have you ever found yourself in the situation where you are complaining, "I just wish he/she would show me more affection, more care - would make more effort to show that they love me."?

In this moment it is really important to take stock of our own ability to self love. Chances are you've been neglecting yourself, or paying too much attention to those negative and doubtful thoughts, which send you seeking affirmation and approval from someone else. If you can turn those requests back onto yourself, "I just wish I would show me more affection, more care - would make more effort to show that I love me.", you'll find that what others think of you becomes almost inconsequential.

So the key today is to first give yourself whatever it is that you are seeking from others in your life. This opens you up to be more accepting and understanding of their needs as well as your own.

In order to feel like you are first priority you need to treat yourself as first priority... then others will follow your lead!

Be your number one best friend today and allow the love from others to seamlessly flow your way.

xxx

(Card deck: Daily Guidance from Your Angels Oracle Cards by Doreen Virtue)